Sex with a Strap-On: We’ve Got This One Pegged
Many heterosexual men become interested in anal play and anal dildos after learning about the possibilities inherent in the p-spot orgasm. Knowing that prostate orgasms have an intensity and quality that’s different than what they can achieve through penile stimulation is often enough for open minded men to become curious about prostate stimulation, and the easiest way to accomplish this is with the assistance of a lover. So what’s the most enjoyable means to go about exploring anal play?
Hello, pegging.
Pegging is the practice of a woman penetrating a man, typically with a conventional strap-on harness. The basic mechanics of pegging aren’t hard to learn. First, get a strap-on harness that you’re comfortable with. Whether it’s a jock or thong arrangement is unimportant, as long as you’re comfortable with it. Next, the dildo you’re going to use with the harness should have a curve to it, so that p-spot arousal will be easily accomplished. Then, the woman in question just puts the harness on and we’re set for penetration.
Now for the finer points.
Always use plenty of anal lubricant when pegging; you’ll want penetration to be smooth and comfortable. Smooth and comfortable means go slow and easy with the thrusting, especially if the man being penetrated is relatively new to anal play. It’s always good to have a safe word to deploy during pegging. The man being penetrated needs to communicate to his lover what he’s feeling and what he wants—this keeps the session comfortable and once the prostate’s been located, the woman will know what to keep doing. Be open about what you’re enjoying and what’s not working—that’ll ensure that future pegging sessions are arousing and enjoyable.
Pegging is great for both partners—it allows men to enjoy the fullness of anal and prostate stimulation and it gives women a chance to explore gender roles, taking on a position they never could otherwise. Go slow and steady when you begin pegging, and over time, you’ll find that pegging’s as hot and exciting as anything you’ve ever tried.